Test for Fun : Are You Bisexual ?

Test for Fun :  Are You Bisexual ?

Q1. what’s your favorite color ?

A.       Purple / Pink----5 score

B.       Red / yellow----3 score

C.        Green / Blue----1 score

Q2. when choosing a friend , you will....

A.       Carefully select a same-sex friend----------5 score

B.       Carefully select a opposite-sex friend------3 score

C.        Not carefully , any gender ,anyone is ok---1 score

Q3. compared with same-sex people ,you are ...

A.       more firm--------5 score

B.       relatively weak--3 score

C.        just ordinary-----1 score

Q4.what kind of thoughts do you aften have about your same-sex friends ?

A.       you wanna a kiss-------------------------5 score

B.       you wanna pinch her or his face--- --3 score

C.        you wanna take care of him or her—1 score

Q5.have you ever exchanged a diary or letters with good friends during a long time?

A.       Still doing it now----------------5 score

B.       Yes, once--------------------------3 score

C.        Maybe in the future you will--1score

Q6. when you are in love...

A.       Easy for you to betray your lover---5 score

B.       Not sure about it----------------------3 score

C.        No , you definitely won’t-------------1 score

Q7. which flower do you prefer ?

A.       Cactus flower------------5 score

B.       Lily---------------------3 score

C.        Rose--------------------1 score

Q8. which type of kiss are you used to ?

A.       Fierce kiss------------------5 score

B.       Tender kiss----3 score

C.        One second kiss-----------1 score

Q9. it’s raining heavily on your way home, but you don’t have an umbrella, you will....

A.       Walk in the rain carefreely and contently---5 score

B.       Run as fast as you can to get home----------3 score

C.        Look for a shelter---------------------------------1 score

Q10. how do you call your lover ?

A.       A special appellation a little bit strange , but sweet----5 score

B.       My boyfriend or girlfriend--------------------------------3 score

C.        Honey or baby---------------------------------------------1 score

Sum of score :  less than 17 , you don’t need somebody to love .

          From 18 to 26 , you are heterosexual.

          From 27 to 34 , you are bisexual

          From 35 to 42 , you may be homosexual

        More than 42, you are definitely gay , fully gay.

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Five Good Books for Bisexual Male and Bisexual Female

Reading makes me feel happy and satisfied all the time , when I am swimming in the book actually I feel like talking to the author’s mind and soul , sharing his experience and his emotion – pleasure , anger , sorry , joy . when we read some books which are closely related to ourselves , we know more about selves and our connection to the world , we become more enriched .

1.The Bisexual's Guide to the Universe: Quips, Tips, And Lists for Those Who Go Both Ways by Nicole Kristal and Mike Szymanski . this book is very interesting and fun to read , the author write down their own personal experiences along the way .

2. Bi Any Other Name: Bisexual People Speak Out by Loraine Hutchins and Lani Kaahumanu . this book is among the most famous bisexual books , this book is totally a collection of personal stories , read this book can make you feel like home and like you find your own people .

3. Bisexuality and Transgenderism: InterSEXions of the Others edited by Nathan Alexander and Karen Yescavage . this book’s essays includes personal stories, poems, academic research, theory, film criticism, and history ,it’s content is very rich . you will easily love it .

4. Bi Lives: Bisexual Women Tell Their Stories by Kata Orndorff . obviously you know what this book tells . the author interviewed numerous bisexuals of different stripes, including women of color and disabled bisexuals. Some of them are out , some are not . these real stories can make readers feel quite a lot .

5. Eros: A Journey of Multiple Lovers by Serena Anderlini-D'Orofio . his controversial book asks the reader to challenge their own feelings about monogamy and hopes that there can be a space for bisexuals of all stripes, not just the monogamous bi poster children.

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Seriously , Bisexual Doesn’t Mean Swinger

Seriously , Bisexual Doesn’t Mean Swinger

According to a health research , about 13 percent of women between age 18 to 42 said they are attracted to both gender ,and most of they won’t come out to anyone until they are 20 years old . Generally speaking ,coming out as bisexual is harder than as fully gay . And what makes it so difficult is people’s attitude toward bisexual .

Some people still think bisexual means the word swinger , they think bisexual must have at least two relationship at once . but the fact is ,most bisexual people are monogamous , just like most straight guy . they start a next relationship when they are single again . they are not cheater , they treat every relationship seriously and also looking forward to true love . the only problem the new lover has to face the other sex EX .

For bisexual people , coming out is not easy ,it takes a lot of time to be brave enough to do it . After their coming out , most of them may feel frustrated when they are into someone , they have to be carefully starting a new relationship .

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Common Misconceptions about Bisexual Female and Bisexual Male

Common Misconceptions about Bisexual Female and Bisexual Male

Most of the time , coming out to public as bisexual , is a hard decision, because of the huge pressure you from outsides . the pressure can not only be consist of violence , insults , supplant ,ect, but also common misconceptions about bisexual – the negative way  people look at bisexual .

When you are coming out as bisexual ,you may get lots of awful massage such as: you are just confused . this is the most common misconception , because most of the people surrounded you are straight and they assume that everyone is heterosexual , if not , you must be gay.

When talk about gay , people will say ,being a gay is ok,but still some of them still believed that there is something wrong with bisexual and it’s immoral .

You have to answer Invasive questions to prove that you are bisexual . when you tell people you are bisexual ,they seem to think you actually said, “I’ll answer the most invasive question you can think of.”

Bisexual can not change , yet there are still some people don’t know this ,they think it’s just a phase .

Bisexual must be greedy ,how funny a thought it is , not every bisexual people want a super active sex life , besides . Just like you can’t assume that a gay man or straight woman wants to have sex with every man they come across, it’s ridiculous to say that a bisexual person wants to have sex with every person of every gender . 

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About Japan , about LGBT

The world is becoming more open, people and cultures are interacting and transforming at an amazing pace due to globalization. While it has become much easier to transfer money abroad and to move around globally, still Japanese culture largely rejects any sort of diversity. 

Although Japan's lesbian, gay, bisexual and transsexual (LGBT) youth do not have to deal with name-calling and physical violence for the most part, the do face ijime, (Japanese for bullying).

Targets of ijime usually deal with silent treatments, badmouthing and alienation because they are considered to be deviants or too different from the established norm.

Due to the communal nature of Japanese culture, most LGBT people in Japan end up leading double lives in which they marry members of the opposite sex to form so-called "normal" relationships while concealing their sexual orientation to avoid discrimination.

A lot of LGBT people tend to be isolated, and often do not meet like-minded individuals until well into their twenties. In most cases, they cannot be open about their sexual orientations in the work place as they risk being fired.

At the same time, there are no Japanese laws against homosexuality.

While Japan does not recognize same-sex partnerships, it does provide some protection for gay and transgender people. Transgender people are legally allowed to change their sex, and transgender people in prison can take separate baths.

Still, despite the negative stereotypes and lack of political acceptance, Japan has a blossoming gay scene that is thriving at the edges of mainstream Japanese society.

The Japanese LGBT scene is very visible in cities such as Tokyo, Osaka and Sapporo, with the largest gay district in country situated in the Shinjuku Ni-chome district in Tokyo having the highest concentration of gay and lesbian bars in Japan.

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About the Bisexual Community How Much Do You Know

About the Bisexual Community How Much Do You Know ?

Here is the current situation of the bisexual community in America :

1.       More than 9 million people in America are LGBT and over half of them identify as bisexual.

2.       Only 28% of bisexuals come out to all the important people in their life, compared to 77% of gay men and 71% of lesbians

3.       Approximately 25% of bisexual male and 30% of bisexual female live in poverty, compared to 15% and 21% of non-LGBT men and women respectively and 20% and 23% of gay man and lesbians

4.       About half of bisexual people report that they are not out to any of their coworkers (49%), compared to just 24% of lesbian and gay people.

5.       20% of bisexuals report experiencing a negative employment decision based on their identity, and almost 60% of bisexual male and bisexual female report hearing anti-bisexual jokes and comments on the job

6.       When bisexual survivors of violence interact with police, however, they are three times more likely to suffer police violence than people who are not bisexual.

7.       Bisexual male and bisexualfemale have high rates of poor physical and mental health. Physical disparities include higher rates of hypertension, poor or fair physical health, smoking, and risky drinking than non-LGB people, lesbians, or gay men. Despite these disparities, and perhaps compounding them, bisexual male and bisexual female are less likely than gay men or lesbians to be out to their health care providers.

8.       Bisexual male and bisexualfemale experience higher rates of sexual and intimate partner violence than gay, lesbian, and straight people.

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Bisexual Can Not Change

Bisexual Can Not Change

In the eastern history there was a dark bleeding time when people thought homosexual is a mental disease and the doctor at that time declared it can change, according to real history stories.

In 1940s, gay men began to be required to carry out mental treatment, and the cure agency promised the family that they won’t give up and send back the patient before cured. In the agency gay people were under through inhuman treatment , Common treatment methods include: prayer, hypnosis, chemical castration, electroshock therapy, disgust therapy, the white matter of the brain surgery.

Lobes of the brain white matter resection surgery (lobotomy) is a kind of neurosurgery operation. In the early part of the 20th century was used for mental illness treatment , including homosexuality, this picture is lobotomy expert Freeman doing the operation on a patient. In thousands of Freeman’s operations , 40% of those who were treated were homosexual. At that time, the expert ‘s slogan is homosexual can change .

Now the result is clear to see, they are incorrect. Homosexual cannot change and so it is bisexual , bisexual can not change. there is no outside way to identity a person’s sex orientation , the only way is the inner self identification. Only the person himself know what is right for him ,not any people else.

A person’s sex orientation will not change, regardless of whether he is gay, straight or bisexual, it is impossible to change his acceptance of his sexual orientation by treatment. For gay , bisexual male or bisexual female  ,whether want to or not , they will be in accordance with their own sexual orientation to develop . If he is straight, his sexual behavior does not cause him to be gay or bisexual.

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Let’s Talk about Bisexuality

Let’s Talk about Bisexuality

Actually , most bi people have such features:

1 . At the beginning ,most bisexual male and bisexual female regarded  themselves as heterosexual ,until they are adult did they realize their aptitude. And some homosexual people became interested in the opposite sex in their middle age or in their marriage and turn into bi . these cases were showed more and more in relevant researches after 1980s.

2.bisexual male and bisexual female feel the same sexual exciting in both gender ,but most bi women or bi men would say that they can feel more emotional complemented when having a bi dating with women.

3.according to the second feature, most bisexual male and bisexual female are more likely to fall in love with a woman and put more attention to their affections toward women. But still , most of them can have affections to both gender. Interesting thing is that most bisexual male would say they put more sexual expectation on men and more emotional expectation on women. some bisexual women have the same feeling,while some don’t . The left bisexual female feel same sexual attraction from both gender and emotional satisfaction comes from bi dating with a female.

4. Bisexual male would say their relationship with women last longer than men . And bisexual female have less partners and their relationship almost last the same long .

5. many bi people say that they were usually being attracted to and appreciate the personal temperament and character yet not the gender itself , it’s something more than the person’s gender . and some bisexual female would say they get different things from different relationship .

6. there are also some people they call themselves bi , but they never make their sexual orientation clear and they may have totally different choice and action in the different stages in their lives .

Throughout our lives we should constantly learn to know ourselves ,we have only one chance to live so don’t forget asking the heart : am i happy ? happiness can never be saw or touched ,only your heart can feel it . live your own true life ,love is innocent all the time. 

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The History of Bisexuality's Development

The history of bisexuality’s development

Bisexuality has its own phylogeny. In most known societies ,you can find bisexual cases to different degrees. And bisexuality in these cases were treated as gay people(attention: heterosexuality , gay ,bisexuality are modern words which can not be found in ancient dictionary). In ancient times,gay were defined by some given behavior.

For example, in ancient Greece,men who have their own family usually keep relationship with same-sex partner. Actually, most emperors of Rome,most shoguns of Japan, part of Chinese emperors including Arab world were bisexuality. Bisexuality existed in different country of different times. Alexander the Great is one of the most famous bisexual emperors,he has uncountable harems,at the same time, he is in relationship with his friend Hephaestion.

Sparta also encourage homosexuality among the soldiers,including the married. Because in Sparta, people think bisexuality can unite soldiers and make soldiers more brave to protect their family and the people they love.

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The Possible Places of Bisexuality

The possible places of bisexuality

Temporary isolation or long distance travel and lack of the opposite sex environment, will make the heterosexuality tend to produce homosexual behavior in the short time to release depression. For example, the army, the prison, the concentration camp, the ocean going ships, the school. Generally speaking, when you leave the environment, the homosexual tendency is to end. Therefore, this homosexuality can also be referred to as the situation of gay people, because some of the environmental factors induced by the "false" homosexuals, known as the more suitable for the bisexuality.

The formation of bisexuality is related to the emotional experience of the youth.Generally,the period from age twelve to eighteen is called puberty. In early puberty, boys and girls have a evasion and rejection towards specific in-depth exchanges with isomerism.,and it is usually easy to form same-sex partners group. If sexual behavior is involved, it will form a homosexual relationship. According to the survey, 10% boys and 5% girls at this stage had homosexual behavior, and most of them will go out of this stage and end the game. But People who had homosexual behavior in their puberty are more likely come out to be a bisexual men or women.

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Bisexual Film Cabaret

Cabaret(1972)

Although Cabaret has become a key gay text, its fanboys and fangirls tend to deify the performances of Liza Minnelli as singer Sally Bowles and Joel Grey as the sexually ambiguous master of ceremonies. Both are magnificent, and both won Oscars. But the best, albeit far less showy, acting comes from Michael York as the bisexual writer (based on Christopher Isherwood, who penned the memoir upon which the musical is based) who moves to Berlin to complete a doctorate, but falls in with Minnelli’s glamorous cabaret singer. The two have a complicated relationship – they have sex with each other, and later find out they have been having a relationship with the same man, a rich baron.

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Bisexual Film Henry and June

Henry and June

In my heart ,this is the most typical bisexual film, The film tells the story of Anais, a wild woman looks grace. When Henry Miller and his wife, Joan walked into Anais’s life,they became Anais's heterosexual and homosexual lover. The film tells a crazy love entanglement and growth process of a woman.

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Bisexual Animals

Bisexual Only Exist in Human Society? NO

Bisexual is very rare in human society and only in human society?, No. Do you know?  Bisexuality exists throughout the animal kingdom. For example, the 10 top famous bisexual animals, chimps , macaque, giraffe, bottle-nosed dolphin, American Buffalo, Antelope, Swan, elephant seal , Guyana chicken, Gray whale.
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