Test for Fun : Are You Bisexual ?

Test for Fun :  Are You Bisexual ?

Q1. what’s your favorite color ?

A.       Purple / Pink----5 score

B.       Red / yellow----3 score

C.        Green / Blue----1 score

Q2. when choosing a friend , you will....

A.       Carefully select a same-sex friend----------5 score

B.       Carefully select a opposite-sex friend------3 score

C.        Not carefully , any gender ,anyone is ok---1 score

Q3. compared with same-sex people ,you are ...

A.       more firm--------5 score

B.       relatively weak--3 score

C.        just ordinary-----1 score

Q4.what kind of thoughts do you aften have about your same-sex friends ?

A.       you wanna a kiss-------------------------5 score

B.       you wanna pinch her or his face--- --3 score

C.        you wanna take care of him or her—1 score

Q5.have you ever exchanged a diary or letters with good friends during a long time?

A.       Still doing it now----------------5 score

B.       Yes, once--------------------------3 score

C.        Maybe in the future you will--1score

Q6. when you are in love...

A.       Easy for you to betray your lover---5 score

B.       Not sure about it----------------------3 score

C.        No , you definitely won’t-------------1 score

Q7. which flower do you prefer ?

A.       Cactus flower------------5 score

B.       Lily---------------------3 score

C.        Rose--------------------1 score

Q8. which type of kiss are you used to ?

A.       Fierce kiss------------------5 score

B.       Tender kiss----3 score

C.        One second kiss-----------1 score

Q9. it’s raining heavily on your way home, but you don’t have an umbrella, you will....

A.       Walk in the rain carefreely and contently---5 score

B.       Run as fast as you can to get home----------3 score

C.        Look for a shelter---------------------------------1 score

Q10. how do you call your lover ?

A.       A special appellation a little bit strange , but sweet----5 score

B.       My boyfriend or girlfriend--------------------------------3 score

C.        Honey or baby---------------------------------------------1 score

Sum of score :  less than 17 , you don’t need somebody to love .

          From 18 to 26 , you are heterosexual.

          From 27 to 34 , you are bisexual

          From 35 to 42 , you may be homosexual

        More than 42, you are definitely gay , fully gay.

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Five Good Books for Bisexual Male and Bisexual Female

Reading makes me feel happy and satisfied all the time , when I am swimming in the book actually I feel like talking to the author’s mind and soul , sharing his experience and his emotion – pleasure , anger , sorry , joy . when we read some books which are closely related to ourselves , we know more about selves and our connection to the world , we become more enriched .

1.The Bisexual's Guide to the Universe: Quips, Tips, And Lists for Those Who Go Both Ways by Nicole Kristal and Mike Szymanski . this book is very interesting and fun to read , the author write down their own personal experiences along the way .

2. Bi Any Other Name: Bisexual People Speak Out by Loraine Hutchins and Lani Kaahumanu . this book is among the most famous bisexual books , this book is totally a collection of personal stories , read this book can make you feel like home and like you find your own people .

3. Bisexuality and Transgenderism: InterSEXions of the Others edited by Nathan Alexander and Karen Yescavage . this book’s essays includes personal stories, poems, academic research, theory, film criticism, and history ,it’s content is very rich . you will easily love it .

4. Bi Lives: Bisexual Women Tell Their Stories by Kata Orndorff . obviously you know what this book tells . the author interviewed numerous bisexuals of different stripes, including women of color and disabled bisexuals. Some of them are out , some are not . these real stories can make readers feel quite a lot .

5. Eros: A Journey of Multiple Lovers by Serena Anderlini-D'Orofio . his controversial book asks the reader to challenge their own feelings about monogamy and hopes that there can be a space for bisexuals of all stripes, not just the monogamous bi poster children.

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Seriously , Bisexual Doesn’t Mean Swinger

Seriously , Bisexual Doesn’t Mean Swinger

According to a health research , about 13 percent of women between age 18 to 42 said they are attracted to both gender ,and most of they won’t come out to anyone until they are 20 years old . Generally speaking ,coming out as bisexual is harder than as fully gay . And what makes it so difficult is people’s attitude toward bisexual .

Some people still think bisexual means the word swinger , they think bisexual must have at least two relationship at once . but the fact is ,most bisexual people are monogamous , just like most straight guy . they start a next relationship when they are single again . they are not cheater , they treat every relationship seriously and also looking forward to true love . the only problem the new lover has to face the other sex EX .

For bisexual people , coming out is not easy ,it takes a lot of time to be brave enough to do it . After their coming out , most of them may feel frustrated when they are into someone , they have to be carefully starting a new relationship .

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Common Misconceptions about Bisexual Female and Bisexual Male

Common Misconceptions about Bisexual Female and Bisexual Male

Most of the time , coming out to public as bisexual , is a hard decision, because of the huge pressure you from outsides . the pressure can not only be consist of violence , insults , supplant ,ect, but also common misconceptions about bisexual – the negative way  people look at bisexual .

When you are coming out as bisexual ,you may get lots of awful massage such as: you are just confused . this is the most common misconception , because most of the people surrounded you are straight and they assume that everyone is heterosexual , if not , you must be gay.

When talk about gay , people will say ,being a gay is ok,but still some of them still believed that there is something wrong with bisexual and it’s immoral .

You have to answer Invasive questions to prove that you are bisexual . when you tell people you are bisexual ,they seem to think you actually said, “I’ll answer the most invasive question you can think of.”

Bisexual can not change , yet there are still some people don’t know this ,they think it’s just a phase .

Bisexual must be greedy ,how funny a thought it is , not every bisexual people want a super active sex life , besides . Just like you can’t assume that a gay man or straight woman wants to have sex with every man they come across, it’s ridiculous to say that a bisexual person wants to have sex with every person of every gender . 

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About Japan , about LGBT

The world is becoming more open, people and cultures are interacting and transforming at an amazing pace due to globalization. While it has become much easier to transfer money abroad and to move around globally, still Japanese culture largely rejects any sort of diversity. 

Although Japan's lesbian, gay, bisexual and transsexual (LGBT) youth do not have to deal with name-calling and physical violence for the most part, the do face ijime, (Japanese for bullying).

Targets of ijime usually deal with silent treatments, badmouthing and alienation because they are considered to be deviants or too different from the established norm.

Due to the communal nature of Japanese culture, most LGBT people in Japan end up leading double lives in which they marry members of the opposite sex to form so-called "normal" relationships while concealing their sexual orientation to avoid discrimination.

A lot of LGBT people tend to be isolated, and often do not meet like-minded individuals until well into their twenties. In most cases, they cannot be open about their sexual orientations in the work place as they risk being fired.

At the same time, there are no Japanese laws against homosexuality.

While Japan does not recognize same-sex partnerships, it does provide some protection for gay and transgender people. Transgender people are legally allowed to change their sex, and transgender people in prison can take separate baths.

Still, despite the negative stereotypes and lack of political acceptance, Japan has a blossoming gay scene that is thriving at the edges of mainstream Japanese society.

The Japanese LGBT scene is very visible in cities such as Tokyo, Osaka and Sapporo, with the largest gay district in country situated in the Shinjuku Ni-chome district in Tokyo having the highest concentration of gay and lesbian bars in Japan.

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About the Bisexual Community How Much Do You Know

About the Bisexual Community How Much Do You Know ?

Here is the current situation of the bisexual community in America :

1.       More than 9 million people in America are LGBT and over half of them identify as bisexual.

2.       Only 28% of bisexuals come out to all the important people in their life, compared to 77% of gay men and 71% of lesbians

3.       Approximately 25% of bisexual male and 30% of bisexual female live in poverty, compared to 15% and 21% of non-LGBT men and women respectively and 20% and 23% of gay man and lesbians

4.       About half of bisexual people report that they are not out to any of their coworkers (49%), compared to just 24% of lesbian and gay people.

5.       20% of bisexuals report experiencing a negative employment decision based on their identity, and almost 60% of bisexual male and bisexual female report hearing anti-bisexual jokes and comments on the job

6.       When bisexual survivors of violence interact with police, however, they are three times more likely to suffer police violence than people who are not bisexual.

7.       Bisexual male and bisexualfemale have high rates of poor physical and mental health. Physical disparities include higher rates of hypertension, poor or fair physical health, smoking, and risky drinking than non-LGB people, lesbians, or gay men. Despite these disparities, and perhaps compounding them, bisexual male and bisexual female are less likely than gay men or lesbians to be out to their health care providers.

8.       Bisexual male and bisexualfemale experience higher rates of sexual and intimate partner violence than gay, lesbian, and straight people.

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Bisexual Can Not Change

Bisexual Can Not Change

In the eastern history there was a dark bleeding time when people thought homosexual is a mental disease and the doctor at that time declared it can change, according to real history stories.

In 1940s, gay men began to be required to carry out mental treatment, and the cure agency promised the family that they won’t give up and send back the patient before cured. In the agency gay people were under through inhuman treatment , Common treatment methods include: prayer, hypnosis, chemical castration, electroshock therapy, disgust therapy, the white matter of the brain surgery.

Lobes of the brain white matter resection surgery (lobotomy) is a kind of neurosurgery operation. In the early part of the 20th century was used for mental illness treatment , including homosexuality, this picture is lobotomy expert Freeman doing the operation on a patient. In thousands of Freeman’s operations , 40% of those who were treated were homosexual. At that time, the expert ‘s slogan is homosexual can change .

Now the result is clear to see, they are incorrect. Homosexual cannot change and so it is bisexual , bisexual can not change. there is no outside way to identity a person’s sex orientation , the only way is the inner self identification. Only the person himself know what is right for him ,not any people else.

A person’s sex orientation will not change, regardless of whether he is gay, straight or bisexual, it is impossible to change his acceptance of his sexual orientation by treatment. For gay , bisexual male or bisexual female  ,whether want to or not , they will be in accordance with their own sexual orientation to develop . If he is straight, his sexual behavior does not cause him to be gay or bisexual.

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